DREAMS

The most important lesson that i have learnt is,one must keep dreaming at various phases of life and then work hard to realise those dreams .
Dreams are not those that we see in our sleep ,they should  be the ones that never let us sleep.

                                                                        APJ ABDUL KALAM ( IN HIS BOOK MY JOURNEY) 

How To Make People Like You Instantly ?

• Philosophers have been speculating on the rules of human relationships for thousands of years, and out of all that speculation, there has evolved only one important precept. It is not new. It is as old as history. ===
• Zoroaster taught it to his followers in Persia twentyfive hundred years ago. 
• Confucius preached it in China twenty-four centuries ago. 
• Lao-tse, the founder of Taoism, taught it to his disciples in the Valley of the Han.
•  Buddha preached it on the bank of the Holy Ganges five hundred years before Christ. The sacred books of Hinduism taught it a thousand years before that.
• Jesus taught it among the stony hills of Judea nineteen centuries ago. Jesus
• summed it up in one thought -probably the most important rule in the world: "Do unto others as you would have others do unto you."

Always make the other person feel important.

DALE CARNEGIE

? How to make people shun you and laugh at you behind your back

•  If you want to know how to make people shun you and laugh at you behind your back and even despise you,  here is the recipe: Never listen to anyone for long. Talk incessantly about yourself. If you have an idea while the other person is talking, don't wait for him or her to finish: bust right in and interrupt in the middle of a sentence.

• Remember that the people you are talking to are a hundred times more interested in themselves and their wants and problems than they are in you and your problems.

A person's toothache means more to that person than a famine in China which kills a million people.
A boil on one's neck interests one more than forty earthquakes in Africa.

• So be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.

                                                                                                                   DALE CARNEGIE

A smile says----

• Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, "I like you, You make me happy. I am glad to see you."
• An insincere grin? No. That doesn't fool anybody
• There's far more information in a smile than a frown. That's why encouragement is a much more effective teaching device than punishment."                                 

                                                    DALE CARNEGIE         

 Act and speak as if cheerfulness were already there. ..."

• "Action seems to follow feeling, but really action and feeling gotogether; and by regulating the action, which is under the more direct control of the will, we can indirectly regulate the feeling, which is not.
• "Thus the sovereign voluntary path to cheerfulness, if our cheerfulness be lost, is to sit up cheerfully and to act and speak as if cheerfulness were already there. ..."

                                                                 William James

American psychologist 

The most powerful weapon 

"Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world."

NELSON MANDELA

The opposite of courage is conformity

• The opposite of courage is not cowardice; the opposite of courage is conformity. Be yourself. Dare to Win. 

• The fear of being different and the need to conform are false and destructive. It is an acquired concept, not something we were born with.

Read these affirmations aloud a number of times every day for thirty days: 

• Day after day I am asserting my true personality more and more.
• I am unique and feel completely free to express my desire to succeed.
• It is my right and duty to be myself.
• The success I achieve will be in keeping with the extent to which I assert myself. I am asserting myself more and more in all areas of my life.
• Every day I am increasing my self-worth ten fold and becoming more and more successful.

Bob Proctor 

Chairman & Co-Founder 

Proctor Gallagher Institute 

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STAND LIKE A ROCK

IN MATTERS OF STYLE ,SWIM WITH THE CURRENT;

IN MATTERS OF PRINCIPLE,STAND LIKE A ROCK.

THOMAS JEFFERSON

 

?YOUR BLISSS

Follow your bliss and the Universe will open doors for you where there were only walls.

                                                                                                       JOSHEPH  CAMPWELL

                                                                                                          (MYTHOLOGIST)

KEEP LOOKING

Your work is going to fill a large part of your life ,and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do.If you haven't found it yet keep looking and don't settle.

STEVE JOBS

When you do something ,no matter what it is ,do it to the best of  your ability .If you are a street sweeper ,sweep the best you can.


                                                                                             LAIRD HAMILTON
                                                  ( ONE OF THE GREATEST BIG-WAVE SURFERS OF THE WORD)

What do you want ?

• The absolute frustration of humankind --what do I do with my life?

PETER FOYO

• What do you want ? Put hand on your heart and ask yourself ,what do I want ? The first thing that comes to mind is always the right one. 

LAYNE BEACHLEY

• Donot let money and security your choices in life .------ Real security means knowing there is no security,because then you will make sure you live everyday of your life to the fullest.                                                                                                                                                                                                                    RHONDA BYRNE            

                

OPPORTUNITIES

Opportunities are in front of everybody everyday
                                            

ANASTASIA SOARE

-----In reality,the world changes every second,blowing a new opportunities in all directions ,including yours.

                                                                                                               REN HAKUTA 

'Someday'

'Someday' is a disease that will take your dreams to the grave with you.

Timothy Feriss

Author of The 4-Hour Workweek

You donot have time to put off your dreams .It is now or never.If you donot do it  now,you will keep putting it off,and you will never do it .The time is now ---- 

The biggest failure 

To never give your dreams a chance is the biggest failure 

                                   MICHEAL ACTION SMITH( in book HERO by RHONDA BYRNE)

BEAUTY OF NEGATIVE CIRCUMSTANCES

• No life circumstances are 100% negative .Every negative circumstance also contains its opposite ,and so there is something good buried within every seemingly bad situation.Life is not about the negative circumstances that happen to you,it is about what you do with the golden oppurtunities hidden within.

• If you hear the call and you donot respond to it because you are too scared or you donot believe it,sometimes the circumstances will push you to follow your dream .

From book  'HERO' by Rhonda Byrne

"Every man I meet is my superior in some

 way, In that, I learn of him."

EMERSON

HENRY FORD

"If there is any one secret of success, it lies in the ability to get the other person's point of view and see things from that person's angle as well as from your own."

?Appreciation and Flattery

"Don't be afraid of enemies who attack you. Be afraid of the friends who flatter you."

The difference between appreciation and flattery?

• One is sincere and the other insincere. 
• One comes from the heart out; the other from the teeth out. 
• One is unselfish; the other selfish.
• One is universally admired; the other universally condemned.

CHARLES SCHWAB

I am hearty in my approbation and lavish in my praise. 


"There is nothing else that so kills the ambitions of a person as

criticisms from superiors. I never criticize any-one. I believe in giving

a person incentive to work. So I am anxious to praise but loath to

find fault. If I like anything, I am hearty in my approbation and lavish

in my praise. "======CHARLES SCHWAB (the first president of the United States Steel 

Company ,WITH SALARY OF MILLION DOLLOR PER ANNUM in 1921)

Why should you and I?

FATHER FORGETS

BY  W. Livingston Larned

Listen, son: I am saying this as you lie asleep, one little paw
crumpled under your cheek and the blond curls stickily wet on your
damp forehead. I have stolen into your room alone. Just a few
minutes ago, as I sat reading my paper in the library, a stifling wave
of remorse swept over me. Guiltily I came to your bedside.
There are the things I was thinking, son: I had been cross to you. I
scolded you as you were dressing for school because you gave your
face merely a dab with a towel. I took you to task for not cleaning
your shoes. I called out angrily when you threw some of your things
on the floor.
At breakfast I found fault, too. You spilled things. You gulped down
your food. You put your elbows on the table. You spread butter too
thick on your bread. And as you started off to play and I made for
my train, you turned and waved a hand and called, "Goodbye,
Daddy!" and I frowned, and said in reply, "Hold your shoulders
back!"
Then it began all over again in the late afternoon. As I came up the
road I spied you, down on your knees, playing marbles. There were
holes in your stockings. I humiliated you before your boyfriends by
marching you ahead of me to the house. Stockings were expensive -
and if you had to
buy them you would be more careful! Imagine that, son, from a
father!
Do you remember, later, when I was reading in the library, how you
came in timidly, with a sort of hurt look in your eyes? When I
glanced up over my paper, impatient at the interruption, you
hesitated at the door. "What is it you want?" I snapped.
You said nothing, but ran across in one tempestuous plunge, and
threw your arms around my neck and kissed me, and your small
arms tightened with an affection that God had set blooming in your
heart and which even neglect could not wither. And then you were
gone, pattering up the stairs.
Well, son, it was shortly afterwards that my paper slipped from my
hands and a terrible sickening fear came over me. What has habit
been doing to me? The habit of finding fault, of reprimanding - this
was my reward to you for being a boy. It was not that I did not love
you; it was that I expected too much of youth. I was measuring you
by the yardstick of my own years.
And there was so much that was good and fine and true in your
character. The little heart of you was as big as the dawn itself over
the wide hills. This was shown by your spontaneous impulse to rush
in and kiss me good night. Nothing else matters tonight, son. I have
come to your bed-side in the darkness, and I have knelt there,
ashamed!
It is a feeble atonement; I know you would not understand these
things if I told them to you during your waking hours. But tomorrow
I will be a real daddy! I will chum with you, and suffer when you
suffer, and laugh when you laugh. I will bite my tongue when
impatient words come. I will keep saying as if it were a ritual: "He is
nothing but a boy - a little boy!"
I am afraid I have visualized you as a man. Yet as I see you now,
son, crumpled and weary in your cot, I see that you are still a baby.
Yesterday you were in your mother's arms, your head on her
shoulder. I have asked too much, too much.

Instead of condemning people, let's try to understand them. Let's try
to figure out why they do what they do. That's a lot more profitable
and intriguing than criticism; and it breeds sympathy, tolerance and
kindness. "To know all is to forgive all."
As Dr. Johnson said: "God himself, sir, does not propose to judge
man until the end of his days."
Why should you and I?

Shortcut to distinction

• The ability to speak is a shortcut to distinction. It puts a person in the limelight, raises one head and shoulders above the crowd

The way to develop self-confidence is to do the thing you
fear to do and get a record of successful experiences behind you.

Dale Carnegie

? WHAT IS YOUR CALLING  

Every single person who has ever been born or ever will be born comes with some unique talent or ability .It is this special thing about you that is your calling .Although no human being is  born without it ,many will have their lives without discovering or living their calling

Your calling is something that moves you like nothing else in life .It is something that you are attacted to,something you are passionate about and it fills you with joy and sets your head on fire when you do it.

From book HERO by Rhonda Byrne (Author of book SECRET)

?TRUE CALLING

We are all here for some special reason. Stop being a prisoner of your past. Become the architect of your future.

Meditate on what your true calling is, and how you
can give of yourself to others. 
 

Everything that lives, lives not alone, not for itself

William Blake

The secret of success

The secret of success is simple:

find out what you truly love to do and then direct all of your energy towards doing it.

GREETIGS 

DEAR BROTHERS AND SISTERS,

 FIRST OF ALL, I GREET ALL OF YOU ON THIS BLOG ----'PATH TO SUCCESS'.

DO YOU KNOW PATH OF SUCCESS?

DO YOU WANT OT BE SUCCESSFUL?

  

DO YOU HAVE URGE TO BE SUCCESSFUL?

APPEARS AWKWARD QUESTIONS OR IS RELAVANT TO YOU?

YOU ARE THE BEST JUDGE ..

BUT SINCE YOU ARE HERE ----MEANS SOMETHING DRAGS YOU .

AND I AM HERE FOR THE SAME PURPOSE ----ONLY GOAL IS DIFFERENT .

LET US START OUR JOURNEY TOGETHER ,BOTH YOU AND ME  IN 

PARTERNERSHIP .

SURE WE WILL GET THE TARGET ,WHAT WE CALL SUCCESS

LET US START A JOURNEY ----A CONTINOUS JOURNEY --FOR SUCCESS-- REMINDING OURRSELVES -------------

When you are inspired by some great purpose, some
extraordinary project, all of your thoughts break their
bonds: your mind transcends limitations, your
consciousness expands in every direction and you find
yourself in a new, great and wonderful world. Dormant
forces, faculties and talents become alive and you discover
yourself to be a greater person than you ever dreamed
yourself to be.(Patanjali)

I WELCOME ONE AND ALL.