Wednesday 31 December 2014

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2015

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2015

What is outside is harder to change than what is inside? Follow the path of least resistance.
Paulo Coelho

Friday 26 December 2014

It was not her choice but her compulsion

I was sitting in paediatric OPD.A mother came with a child who was diagnosed with measles.She was advised for hospitalization.
Suddenly ,about four year child who was standing beside her mother, spoke----uncle we have no money !!!!!!

After some time i realised why her mother came to government . hospital.
It was not her choice but her compulsion ---and that raises many questions that need to be answered urgently and honestly

Nothing in this world is ever completely wrong .

One wanted to follow all possible paths and so ended up following none .So evident------is not not so?
So what to do?
Choose some path and follow them,abandon others .Of course ,there is a risk in  choosing a wrong  path.But there is no way to select the right path also because outcome of right or wrong path is in future and will remain in the future till you take the desicion to follow a particular path.

Are you afraid of choosing a particular path? There is a consolation.Nothing in this world is ever completely wrong .

We all know even a stopped clock is right twice in a day.

Thursday 18 December 2014

Majority belongs to them.---yes ---it is democracy!!!!

The officer was sitting in front of a senior officer and indicating points of her concern regarding a purchase proposal .It was having no  impact over the boss .He was just predetermined to get the things done by hook or cook.
The  discussion took the ugly scene which was of no importance to  the senior officer because that was his style of functioning and he was tuned to that things .May be ,he used that style to  bloster his self-esteem and intimidate others.
Extreme self interest come in the last of discussion.
The senior officer said---"i have to save  my face" . He instructed officer to go and give second thought to agree to the proposal .
He also said which was height of  his arrogance and insensitivity ----that is----i have to protect my family , my sons and daughter.I am not concerned of you  .Do whatever i say to do.
The most surprising thing was that the senior officer was certainly trying to get the thins done which was wrong .
This  is example of  good governance !!!!!!.

Who is that officer ?Where he is? Why he is so?Who is victim of such officer?What should be done to such officer?
God only knows--NO.
Everyone knows. and surprisingly rarely any one is to support an upright officer.
Why?
Majority belongs to them.---yes ---it is democracy!!!!


Tuesday 16 December 2014

Just one bit at a time


Happy the man,and happy he alone ,
He,who can call to-day his own;
He who ,secure within ,can say ;
'to-morrow ,do thy worst ,for i have liv'd to-day

Roman poet 
 HORACE 
Every day brings new life to life, so try to live only one day at a time .

Try to take one step at a time.
Try to solve one problem at a time .
Try to do one thing at a time.

--------and anything ---just one bit at a time
---just --that is all that  is needed to live for a day ----yes! live for one day at time ,one hour at a time ,one minute at a time ,one second at a time  and ----that is all to live a happy and anxiety free life.

Our main business is not to see what lies dimly at a distance ,but to do what lies clearly at hand ---Thomas Carlyle 

Wednesday 10 December 2014

Look is always at forefront of a lady mind

Recently my wife got operated for eye problem.She is recovering nicely and i am taking care of her in the best possible way.
I am cooking for my family . I am getting my son ready for schools,

Every now and then, i am looking after her concens .
 She is also concerned but her concern was  bit confusing to me  at a glance
She asked how  "is my eye looking ?"
Fine---

Is it looking as it used to be? ----
That bring my attention to her concern of her look   --and i was losing sight that she was a lady ?
Her concern was really important ---may not have same significance for me.
After all --she is a lady and look is always at forefront of  a lady mind .

LET US GLOBALISE COMPASSION, AND SET OUR CHILDREN FREE

Nobel Lecture

Nobel Lecture by Kailash Satyarthi, Oslo, 10 December 2014.

LET US GLOBALISE COMPASSION, AND SET OUR CHILDREN FREE

 
(My dear children of the world…)
Your Majesties, Your Royal Highnesses, Excellencies, distinguished members of the Norwegian Nobel Committee, dear brother Tom Harkin, brothers and sisters, a and my dear daughter Malala.
From this podium of peace and humanity, I am deeply honoured to recite a mantra from the ancient texts of wisdom, Vedas.
This mantra carries a prayer, an aspiration and a resolve that has the potential to liberate humanity from all man-made crises.
Let's walk together. In the pursuit of global progress, not a single person should be left out or left behind in any corner of the world, from East to West, from South to North.
Let's speak together, let our minds come together! Learning from the experiences of our ancestors, let us together create knowledge for all that benefits all.
I bow to my late parents, to my motherland India, and to the mother earth.
With a warm heart I recall how thousands of times, I have been liberated, each time I have freed a child from slavery. In the first smile of freedom on their beautiful faces, I see the Gods smiling. 
I give the biggest credit of this honour to my movement's Kaalu Kumar, Dhoom Das and Adarsh Kishore from India and Iqbal Masih from Pakistan who made the supreme sacrifice for protecting the freedom and dignity of children. I humbly accept this award on behalf of all such martyrs, my fellow activists across the world and my countrymen.
My journey from the great land of Lord Buddha, Guru Nanak and Mahatma Gandhi; India to Norway is a connect between the two centres of global peace and brotherhood, ancient and modern.
Friends, the Nobel Committee generously invited me to deliver a "lecture.” Respectfully, I am unable to do that.
I represent here the sound of silence. The cry of innocence. And, the face of invisibility. I have come here to share the voices and dreams of our children, our children, because they are all our children.
I have looked into their frightened and exhausted eyes. And I have heard their urgent questions:
Twenty years ago, in the foothills of the Himalayas, I met a small, skinny boy. He asked me: "Is the world so poor that it cannot give me a toy and a book, instead of forcing me to take a tool or gun?”
I met with a Sudanese child-soldier who was kidnapped by an extremist militia. As his first training, he was forced to kill his friends and family. He asked me: "What is my fault?”
Twelve years ago, a child-mother from the streets of Colombia – trafficked, raped, enslaved – asked me this: "I have never had a dream. Can my child have one?”
There is no greater violence than to deny the dreams of our children.
The single aim of my life is that every child is:
free to be a child,
free to grow and develop,
free to eat, sleep, see daylight,
free to laugh and cry,
free to play,
free to learn, free to go to school, and above all,
free to dream.
All the great religions tell us to care for children. Jesus said: "Let the children come to me; do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to them.” The Holy Quran says: "Kill not your children because of poverty.”
I refuse to accept that all the temples and mosques and churches and prayer houses have no place for the dreams of our children.
I refuse to accept that the world is so poor, when just one week of global spending on armies is enough to bring all of our children into classrooms.
I refuse to accept that all the laws and constitutions, and the judges and the police are not able to protect our children.
I refuse to accept that the shackles of slavery can ever be stronger than the quest for freedom.
I REFUSE TO ACCEPT.
I am privileged to work with many courageous souls who also refuse to accept. We have never given up against any threat and attack, and we will never. Undoubtedly, progress has been made in the last couple of decades. The number of out of school children has been halved. Child mortality and malnutrition has been reduced, and millions of child deaths have been prevented. The number of child labourers in the world has been reduced by a third. Make no mistake, great challenges still remain.
Friends, the biggest crisis knocking on the doors of humanity today is intolerance.
We have utterly failed in imparting an education to our children. An education that gives the meaning and objective of life and a secure future. An education that builds a sense of global citizenship among the young people. I am afraid that the day is not far when the cumulative result of this failure will culminate in unprecedented violence that will be suicidal for humankind.
Yet, young people like Malala, are rising up everywhere and choosing peace over violence, tolerance over extremism, and courage over fear.
Solutions are not found only in the deliberations in conferences and prescriptions from a distance. They lie in small groups and local organisations and individuals, who confront the problem every day, even if they remain unrecognised and unknown to the world
Eighteen years ago, millions of my brothers and sisters in 103 countries marched across 80,000 kilometres. And, a new international law against child labour was born. We have done this.
You may ask: what can one person do? Let me tell you a story I remember from my childhood: A terrible fire had broken out in the forest. All the animals were running away, including the lion, king of the forest. Suddenly, the lion saw a tiny bird rushing towards the fire. He asked the bird, "what are you doing?” To the lion's surprise, the bird replied "I am on my way to extinguish the fire.” He laughed and said, "how can you kill the fire with just one drop of water, in your beak?” The bird was adamant, and said, "But I am doing my bit.”
You and I live in the age of rapid globalisation. We are connected through high-speed Internet. We exchange goods and services in a single global market. Each day, thousands of flights connect us to every corner of the globe.
But there is one serious disconnect. It is the lack of compassion. Let us inculcate and transform the individuals' compassion into a global movement. Let us globalise compassion. Not passive compassion, but transformative compassion that leads to justice, equality, and freedom.
Mahatma Gandhi said, "If we are to teach real peace in this world... we shall have to begin with the children.” I humbly add, let us unite the world through the compassion for our children.
Whose children are they who stitch footballs, yet have never played with one? They are our children. Whose children are they who mine stones and minerals? They are our children. Whose children are they who harvest cocoa, yet do not know the taste of a chocolate? They are all our children.
Devli was born into intergenerational debt and bonded labour in India. Sitting in my car immediately after her rescue the eight-year-old girl asked: Why did you not come earlier? Her angry question still shakes me – and has the power to shake the world. Her question is for all of us. Why did we not come earlier? What are we waiting for? How many more Devlis will we allow to go without rescue? How many more girls will be abducted, confined and abused? Children, like Devli across the world are questioning our inaction and watching our actions.
We need collective actions with a sense of urgency. Every single minute matters, every single child matters, every single childhood matters.
I challenge the passivity and pessimism surrounding our children. I challenge this culture of silence, this culture of neutrality.
I, therefore, call upon all the governments, intergovernmental agencies, businesses, faith leaders, the civil society, and each one of us, to put an end to all forms of violence against children. Slavery, trafficking, child marriages, child labour, sexual abuse, and illiteracy have no place in any civilised society.
Friends, we can do this.
Governments must make child friendly policies, and invest in education and young people.
Businesses must be more responsible and open to innovative partnerships.
Intergovernmental agencies must work together to accelerate action.
Global civil society must rise above business-as-usual and scattered agendas.
Faith leaders and institutions, and all of us must stand with our children.
We must be bold, we must be ambitious, and we must have the will. We must keep our promises.
Over fifty years ago, on the first day of my school I met a cobbler boy my age sitting at the school gate, polishing shoes. I asked my teachers these questions: "Why is he working outside? Why is he not coming to school with me?” My teachers had no answer. One day, I gathered the courage to ask the boys' father. He said: "Sir, I have never thought about it. We are just born to work.” This made me angry. It still makes me angry. I challenged it then, and I am challenging it today.
As a child, I had a vision of tomorrow. That cobbler boy was studying with me in my classroom. Now, that tomorrow has become TODAY. I am TODAY, and you are TODAY. TODAY it is time for every child to have the right to life, the right to freedom, the right to health, the right to education, the right to safety, the right to dignity, the right to equality, and the right to peace.
TODAY, beyond the darkness, I see the smiling faces of our children in the blinking stars. TODAY, in every wave of every ocean, I see our children playing and dancing. TODAY, in every plant, tree, and mountain, I see that little cobbler boy sitting with me in the classroom.
I want you to see and feel this TODAY inside you. My dear sisters and brothers, may I ask you to close your eyes and put your hand close to your heart for a moment?   Can you feel the child inside you? Now, listen to this child. I am sure you can!
Today, I see thousands of Mahatma Gandhis, Martin Luther Kings, andNelson Mandelas marching forward and calling on us. The boys and girls have joined. I have joined in. We ask you to join too.
Let us democratise knowledge.
Let us universalise justice.
Together, let us globalise compassion, for our children!
I call upon you in this room, and all across the world.
I call for a march from exploitation to education, from poverty to shared prosperity, a march from slavery to liberty, and a march from violence to peace.

Let us march from darkness to light. Let us march from mortality to divinity.
Let us march!

SOURCE  <http://www.nobelprize.org/nobel_prizes/peace/laureates/2014/satyarthi-lecture_en.html>

Monday 8 December 2014

Delhi pavement is great

Delhi pavement is great

The old man sitting on the pavement declined to take the polythene bag full of apples .My wife was purchasing some fruits from the vendor in front of her medical complex and she asked the the vendor to offer the fruit to that old person.
Actually that old man was frequently seen beside the path.
We had discussed about that person because his appearance and way of sitting and sleeping was not consistent with the path dwellers or beggars.

He used to  bear relatively clean Kurta and Pajama.He was a white bearded person .

We used to see him whenever we go to for the evening walk .Sometime he was also seen during mid-day

.He had a plastic bucket containing something .

We have seen him sleeping on the plastic sheet ,which was of good quality .
He had a few aluminium utensils .

We have seen him cooking the food .
 .
A chulha was prepared by using two bricks kept side by side What exactly he used to cook ,i could only guess .Most likely it was rice .He used to blow with mouth for fire to be more intense and in the process once i saw the wrinkle over his face .

Who he is ,from where he has come is  enigma for me. .
I wish i could know about him because he was at least not a beggar
AND he has proved that by declining the the bag of apple .

Perhaps he appears to victim of social apathy ,social negligence by his own son/daughter
Perhaps he has been enforced to sleep on the pavement of  Delhi .
Delhi pavement is great ,, it provides shelter to many individual??????????????



Friday 5 December 2014

If what you do is good for others, it’ll be good for you too

 If what you do is good for others, it’ll be good for you too


Whatever good work you do, you’re bound to face problems and obstacles. Therefore, it’s important to check your motivation. It helps to be truthful and honest. If what you do is good for others, it’ll be good for you too. Once you know your goal can be reached, you should try to follow it through to the end. Then, even if you don’t achieve it, at least you’ll have no cause for regret.
DALAI LAMA

Wednesday 3 December 2014

LISTEN NOT ONLY WITH EARS BUT ALSO WITH EYES
-----he/she may have bigger problems/things to share