Better please yourself.

I brought kalakanda(sweet) .Wife commented it to be rotten.It irritated me because she had predetermined concept about that shop.I asked her to through it out if rotten but next moment she started  enjoying the sweet on pretext that I didnot waste money.This is how her negativity gets reflected ,but she often decline it to be so.No way to prove her and no way to disprove  because she had answer for everything whether right or wrong (more often wrong ) .

I also brought samosa .We all gulped it .No samosa was left for Anmol .Anmol started crying for it.Somehow Anmol was pacified  and is now drinking milk with excessive sugar.

I brought Samosa and kalakand to enjoy evening but ----happened otherwise .I could not please anyone .

Does it happened with me or it is a routine happening in every household?

And ,now I am thinking whom to please------myself or family ?

----------Better please yourself.

ANGER CHANNELISED

Post by Dr.Nagendra Kumar Sinha.

Even small chunk of information is a big thing for the person who need it

I was waiting for the metro at Shashtrinagar station ,One middle aged person ,visibly panic,came and enquired about time to reach Anand vihar railway station.He was to take train by 7 pm and it was 5.30 at Shashtrinagar metro station.He was worried and fearing of missing the train.
I assured him that he will reach Anand vihar station well within time .He doubly  checked from me .I emphatically assured him that he would not miss the train.
After that i saw a sense of satisfaction over his face .In the meantime he boarded the metro .

It is a simple incident ,many of us may have similar self -experience.
So what is unusual with this incident ----nothing ---it simply brings to our attention that

1.When you donot know the reality --even so-called small thing  creates panic
2.Proper guidance and correct information takes away the panic response
3.Even small chunk of information is a big thing for the person who need it  

Perhaps everyone knows the formula ,What is lacking is the application of those formula

Yesterday ,i started something which i had never done .And it was pleasant experience for me and more for my son .He is in class 6 and is to be promoted to class 7.By this time ,he is tuned to classroom teaching .
But yesterday ,he and his friend were only students in my class ,which was arranged after taking into their consent.

I just stand and took the role of teacher..Moment i stand --a thought prevail --how to begin with? I was not prepared.Suddenly  a question arose in my mind and asked to Anmol (my son ) and his friend (Sneh) ---"what is the most important point for success and particularly for excellent performance in study?
Sneh replied --"concentration and understanding ".
Anmol added --"practice"

I was really impressed with answers .Our child were knowing the success formula even without going through any major motivational and success book .Perhaps everyone  knows the formula ,What is lacking is  the application of those formula .
I asked --"anything more "\
Both Anmol and sneh just started pondering
After some pause ---i asked --what about interest /desire ?
Both jumped to repeat ---yes ----desire is most important  to achieve anything ----desire to learn ,desire to excel ,desire to win,desire to have toy ,desire to play ,desire to see the cartoon ,desire to cycling ,desire to ---desire--desire----desire ---and desire for anything .Nothing happens unless you desire --that is the starting point .

Thereafter i taught both about angles with constant interaction .After ,the class ,our both boys were very much satisfied and surprisingly both  were expressing the high  level of energy ,there were no sign of exhaustation.----clear indication of enjoying my class.
I was also feeling good and energetic  because this short class brought to my attention to four component of success------

1.DESIRE
2.CONCENTRATION
3.UNDERSTANDING
4.PRACTICE.

WHAT IS OUR STANDING IN TERMS OF SIZE OF UNIVERSE

Post by Dr.Nagendra Kumar Sinha.

Happy holi

Happy holi to all