Saturday 15 November 2014

Do you remember when you got last praise ?


Do you like praise ?
Who does not?
Do you remember when you got last praise ?
Not remembering ?---no surprise .
Do you remember  when you last criticised someone?
Laughing---WHY?
I myself just criticised my wife for her habit of wasting time in seeing BIG BOSS serial. I just criticised my son for not starting the study.
I am sure ---you do not need to remmemeber when you crticisised someone for something.
It is a matter of routine rather than exception---why?
Why are we so miser in praise  .
Why not we use ability of human being to praise others .
Answer lies in our perception
Perhaps we think that criticism works more than that of praise.

But this is an  illusion.--this is not a fact .Skinner has proved over the dog . When a dog can be trained with the instrument of praise and reward ,WHY NOT WE PEOPLE?

To realise the power of praise --

Try from now---

Praise your wife .
Praise your son
Praise your friend 
Praise your brother 
Praise your sister
Praise your daughter
Praise your mother 
Praise your father
Praise employer 
Praise your boss
Praise your friend 
Praise your student
Praise everyone who come in your contact 
and you will see the wonder 
you will be surprised.

If it is difficult to praise any one --
praise yourself --
Yes, yourself (ironically , self -praise is also not common ) and you see the change .
Miracle will happen .

Yes ----Praise is the the strongest instrument to spur people for the success.

LET US USE THIS POWERFUL INSTRUMENT .

Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement .Be hearty in ypur approbation and lavish in your praise.------DALE CARNEGIE

Praise is like sunlight to the warm human spirit;we cannot flower and grow without it.And yet ,while most of us are only too ready to apply to others to the cold wind of criticism, we are somehow reluctant to give our fellow the warm sunshine of praise.----JESS LAIR (PSYCHOLOGIST)

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